How to Get a Girlfriend

Introduction

If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Steps

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Step One

Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.

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Step Two

Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.

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Step Three

Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.

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Step Four

Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.

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Step Five

Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?

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Step Six

Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.

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Step Seven

If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.

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Step Eight

If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.

Tips & Warnings

• Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.
• Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.

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